“How are you so okay with not having found a partner yet?” asked Sarah, an intuitive reader I was talking to in Boulder, CO just after she had given me a reading.

She said she has been doing everything she can think of to “call in” her partner or soulmate, and still, she’s single. It has caused her pain, heartache, and longing.

I asked her if she trusted the Universe. “Yes,” she replied. If you trust, then you trust, I said. How can you trust some things in your life and not others? If you have an agreement to be with someone in a romantic relationship, you will be. Whatever is in support of your Highest Good is happening, always. It goes beyond “attracting” your partner, it’s also about what you have chosen as your theme or mission in this life, and who will be most supportive to this. We have chosen to have agreements and “soul contracts” with many people in our lifetime. You can keep these agreements, or not. It’s up to you, that’s the beauty of free will as a human.

It goes beyond “attracting” your partner, it’s also about what you have chosen as your theme or mission in this life, and who will be most supportive to this. We have chosen to have agreements and “soul contracts” with many people in our lifetime. You can keep these agreements, or not. It’s up to you, that’s the beauty of free will as a human.

I know, and not from my mind but rather the deepest place of knowingness I can have, that if a particular person will support my calling in this life, then I will meet him…whether we are together for a day or a lifetime. It’s not up to my conscious mind, and there’s no amount of “calling him in” that will make it happen. I can, of course, be the vibration that will match with the partner I wish for, and inevitably if a person does come on the scene, he will match my vibration.

Have you done all the work and read the books about “attracting” your person? Me too. It was good work and was helpful in my expansion and growth. What I realized though, was that it’s not about “me finding him,” it’s about me remembering who I really am…love, Infinity, Source, God, All That Is.

I cannot be alone. I am All That Is. Yes, I may have a moment of wishing for human connection or company, and then I remember that I am that too. I am connected to everyone and everything. I AM. The deeper I uncover the Truth, that I am not Tarah, the needs of Tarah slip away…until what’s left is resting in the light of Source.

If that’s too “far out there” for you right now, that’s okay. Come back to center inside of yourself. Pause, breathe, and remember your True Nature of Infinity. Remember a time when you were in love with another human, and feel your heart open to this moment. Time doesn’t exist, so there is no “it happened a long time ago.” There is only now, and it’s all happening now, simultaneously. Connect with this love you felt, and still feel. This is who you are.

It wasn’t always so easy for me to feel this knowingness and peace around finding a partner (or not). And I have had many fun, crazy and heartbreaking experiences dating and being in relationship with another.

If you’d like to find more peace around this subject, and take the pressure off of finding “the one,” have a listen to this episode over on iTunes or below.

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Today and always, so much love,
Tarah

 

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